When the cuckold experience doesn’t work
We always talk about positive things on this blog but what happens when a cuckold relationship sours? I wanted to write this post today because I’ve had this very experience and I’m sure all of you who are interested in cuckolding are wondering if this could happen.
First of all, you all know that I love my darling cucks. I like to think of myself as the Princess of all the cucks out there, you included. But sometimes a cuckold relationship in real life isn’t as easy as the fantasy.
I was in a cuckold relationship with a guy which was fantastic! One day he confessed his desire to see me screw another guy and of course I obliged. Over the next few months we brought in a third person every so often. At first, I let him still have sex with me but then I decided to take things further.
I love a cuck in chastity
After all, you know how much I love putting a cuck in chastity! It gets me all hot and bothered!
Anyway, I decided to put him in chastity (he has expressed interest as well of course). The first week or so was agony for him, especially when I invited my guy friend over. I can’t imagine how hard it is to watch your girlfriend get fucked by another guy and not even be able to touch your own cock. I reveled in his discomfort and when I occasionally let him out to cum, he exploded.
Yet, after a month, things were getting a bit stale. Like any relationship, the sexual side is one of the things you have to work on.
I finally sat down with him and got him to reveal the truth. He wasn’t that excited about being in chastity anymore. I asked him what he meant and he hummed and hawed and then explained that it wasn’t for him. He didn’t like being so confined. Which was a disappointment to me, because I loved it. He wanted to go back to the way things were, but my dominant side could not be harnessed once it was unleashed.
Back to occasional sex? I don’t think so.
So we parted ways. It happens. And if you are in real cuckold relationships, you may come across similar issues. That’s why it’s important to always be vocal.
But don’t worry about little ole me. I didn’t get my heart broken. Instead, I decided to dominate all of you via the phone. Nothing like having a bunch of cuck slaves begging you to cum to make a girl happy.
cheating girlfriend Princess Andi
Very interesting post Andi. I enjoy the cuckolding discussion. It is really important for everyone to be honest at all stages, because cuckolding is such an emotional as well as a physical experience. Even in the fantasy realm. It can feel real bad if it doesn’t turn out to be what everyone wants. I have been real glad you have encouraged me to speak up in our fantasies because it is important and it helps.. It’s too bad what happened with you, but thank you for sharing. And I am glad you love those of us who enjoy the occasional cuckolding fantasy with you on the phone. That’s an important part of the fantasy for me as well.
Thank you Bfla,
I will always encourage honest communication when it comes to any type of fantasy phone sex or not.
I had hesitated to share this experience and then decided to because I feel there is a valuable lesson to learn and to encourage others to let them know it is okay to change your mind.
Thank you for the comment and for adding to the discussion.
~Princess Andi~
What a lucky guy he was! Actually I understand the part about not liking the cage or complete enforced chastity. We’re all different in so many ways. For instance I would absolutely love it if you were to tell me as your cuckold that I wasn’t allowed to have sex with you or anyone else ever again, while you were free to sleep with bigger guys all you wanted. It would turn me so much. But I wouldn’t be able to handle not being able to masturbate, especially thinking about you cuckolding the hell out of me! Different strokes I guess, but you make a good point about knowing each person’s limitations and turn-ons in order to have a good relationship.
Kevin,
Welcome to my blog! I understand that male chastity is not for everyone. And, for those that do enjoy being locked up are just as different. It is a very personal journey. That’s true with all aspects of sexuality. Thank you for sharing what you enjoy about cuckolding. I really enjoy denying a cuckie the pleasure of my pussy. And, teasing him about it.
I appreciate you taking the time out to share your personal feelings on the subject. I know others even when they don’t comment enjoy reading other guys perspective on the subject as well.
(((hugs)))
~Princess Andi~