5 ways to become my favorite cuckold
My Favorite Cuckie Is….
1. The one who is open about his fantasies.
I know it can be hard to share your cuckold fantasies with others but it’s important to be upfront with it. If you have that secret desire to be cuckolded and never tell your partner, you will end up being completely frustrated.
But before you blurt out your fantasies, take time to really think them through. What turns you on? Is it just knowing that I will be with another person? Do you want to watch or would you rather hear about it later?
2. Shares his pleasure as well as his discomfort.
The worst thing you can do when turning a fantasy into reality is to stay silent about what bothers you. Now, I know it will never match perfectly with what’s in your head but that doesn’t mean you should ignore your negative feelings about the experience. Perfect example: I have a friend who cuckolds her husband on a regular basis. After one such session, he became practically belligerent. Finally he confessed that while he was turned on by being cuckolded, hearing her tell the other man she loved him was just too much. I love openness and honesty!
3. Completely open to new ideas.
Here’s the thing: When you are in a cuckold relationship (and I should know, I’ve been in a few) it’s not just about you and your secret fantasies. You have to open yourself up to new possibilities, ones that maybe you thought you would never do. It doesn’t have to be anything as drastic as cocksucking (although I have to confess, I’m a …well… sucker for that). Just keep yourself open and ready to try new things.
4. Doesn’t let jealously affect everything.
I’ve had several guys tell me that their cuckold fantasy didn’t quite go the way they wanted when it happened in real life. In the fantasy realm the idea of jealousy can be brushed off, but it’s very real. So what does that mean? No more cuckold experiences for you? Not at all! Just keep that jealously in check and focus on why your partner is getting it on with some other guy. For both of your pleasures.
5. Loves to be cuckolded!
And of course, you have to love to be cuckolded! I love cuckolding men (it’s one of my turn ons) and it’s no fun if someone doesn’t love it also. Guys who are enthusiastic and excited about cuckolding always get an A in my book. Of course, if you are new that doesn’t mean you can’t be a bit nervous but once you start, you will never go back!
So there you have it! My list of my favorite cuckie! Tell me, are you my favorite?
Fantastic thought-provoking post Andi. That’s the really wonderful thing about your cuckolding blog. It’s so varied. You not only have so many different kinds of cuckolding fantasies — something for everyone — but you have these great discussions about the subject as well. I enjoyed reading this a lot. It’s very personal for me because I never explored cuckolding in any way until I started it as a fantasy with you. It has been a wonderful journey, even when we have encountered the occasional bump along the way. Even as a fantasy, as we have discussed and written, all of the things you wrote about apply. So am I your favorite? Let’s see:
Seriously, I have been able to get so into it because of the wonderful way you have helped guide and support me on this journey. 
1. Thanks to your wonderful receptiveness and encouragement, I have been able to be open about my fantasies. And it’s not the easiest thing in the world for me. I hope you feel I have been open. As I told you recently, the hottest fantasies for me are when I get to participate in pleasing you and your stud, as well as watching, as opposed to being sent away or having to turn around.
2. I definitely have been honest with you when we tried things I wound up not liking. It doesn’t happen often, since I love just about everything I get to do with you, but I think you will remember one in particular very recently that turned out not to be what I had envisioned, and you were there to help me and reassure me that it was ok and that we could still have lots of fun in other ways. So I agree it was really important for me to be honest with you so I could get over being upset, but it was also important that you responded in the understanding way you did. It wouldn’t work without both.
3. I hope you agree I get passing marks here. You have exposed me to a lot of different kind of fantasies since we started talking, and I have been willing to try a lot of things. It’s been an incredible experience.
4. I think jealousy is very real, whether it’s in the realm of fantasy or in real life. Fortunately, that hasn’t been an issue in our fantasies. Because I have been honest with you about what I like, and because you love so many different kinds of fantasies, we have created some incredibly hot cuckold fantasies that both of us get way into and really are for both our pleasure. Thank you!
5. Oh, I think you know the answer to this one. Enthusiasm has been my middle name, right?
So am I your favorite? I really don’t expect you to answer that question for anyone, but I hope I am ONE of your favorites because all five topics are true for me. For me our cuckolding fantasies have been a wonderful experience and I hope they have been as meaningful and enjoyable for you. Bfla
Wow Bfla! Thank you for taking such care in responding to today’s cuckold blog post. I really enjoy your valuable input and appreciate your thoughtful comment. I do enjoy reading your comments to my various fetish blog posts.
I will always encourage you to go after and do things that interest you. : ) We have so much fun, don’t we? I appreciate your honesty and that is why, what we do, works so well, because, we do share open and honest communication.
Yes. You get high marks BflEa! *wink*
Happy Valentine’s day!
~Princess Andi~